I have been blogging for about three months now, and things have happened that made me incredibly mad at a few people. I felt this over whelming urge to yell at them, because they hurt me. I am not a saint, I feel, and I am sensitive. And sometimes, just sometimes, I do end up taking matters into my own hands and hand people their butts.
But that doesn’t mean I’m cruel.
I never, ever named out people on this blog. I promised myself to never name out people, even the ones who did the most horrendous things and left me feeling like a wreck. Because, that’s not my secret to tell. I have no right to name out who did what to me, because that means outing people in public for the world to see. I am a thousand things, but I am not a bully. I am not a cyber bully, and nor am I going to abuse the power of internet and write things about named people.
I see people writing about people who may have caused incredible amount of pain to them, but naming them out on here is just not fair. It is like a permanent scar, a mark. It will stay with them for the rest of their lives, even if they want to redeem themselves. It will haunt them for their lives, and I don’t want to be the one responsible for their nightmares. Naming people out has consequences, and nobody should have to go through that humiliation – not even enemies.
I am not saying every single person in my life has caused only pain. There are people who owe my eternal thanks, but I don’t name them out either. I have no right to violate someone’s privacy, nor do I wish to be a hypocrite by naming out only the ones who made me smile. But here is a little secret between you and me – if you mean something to me, I will leave a hint in my blogs so you know I was thinking of you.
So, that’s just me. I don’t name out people, not here. I don’t believe in revenge, I just take my seat and let things fall into place. Writing is a beautiful thing, it’s meant to spread wisdom. Writing makes me feel like I have a constant companion, it’s an escape from reality. The last thing that my words will be are arrows and swords.